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I certainly am...I'm concerned about you though...I mean that lady whose face I can't see....it says it's you....but but but.....how can I be sure....*grins*...Merry Christmas and Happy New Year my dear *hugs*.
LOL for real..I cant believe I let him/them drag me up that mountain..10,000 feet.But it was good,they took great care of me and I had a blast..snow blast.;0 And got to see the best in the world board ..they were seriously awesome.
Thanks.;0 wish you were here too..then there would be all kinds of fun!! Br safe out there,there is some really cold weather coming,if it already hasnt hit you yet.
We froze our asses off the pass was treacherous as hell coming back..but it was killer.Will be posting the pix and details tomorrow..all I want now is sleep...
trippy..get picked up at the airport and on the way to the house there are two buck trotting along the sidewalk down town..I think Santas in town or something..but didnt know reindeer had to go christmas shopping.
I'm really glad your trip went well and that you and your son had a good time. Absolutely, reindeer are people to, of course they have to go mall hopping! lol
Oh, I'm sending you a message so check yer box n don't loose it this time lol
wow
14:49 Dec 19 2008 Times Read: 1,068
its good to see my son.Flight was great,dinner was great,and he and I went down the mountain to town for a bit.Talk about a christmas wonderland..butt cold too.
today some rest,tomorrow,its off to the Dew classic in Breck.Hope all is well here on the vr homefront.
We walked.Went to the cafe and there were about 8 of us that met up there.I got to meet some of his boarding and skate team.we had a really nice time.He even made me his special hot chocy..And this town,seriously,it looks like a winter wonderland.This am hes off at school and I€m letting myself adjust to the altitude..
Oh,there is one thing..rumor has it we will be hikiing Mt. Lincon so they can bust cornice..but dimmet,that sucker is like 14,400 feet.Immmm just not so sure I can do that sucker again..its been a while.I have to see how Ill fair at 10,000 first.
Then this is where Ill be and what Ill be watching my kid do.Right there in that halfpipe.First time I will get to see him in something like this,so Im pretty stoked.
ooh.one thing I need to tell you now..I thought he was going to be in the main competition..come to find out he was there doing some freeboarding and poll jam.But turns out he wasnt in the main comps.But he boarded great and we had a nice time.Good way to spend a Christmas with my last one in line.
Five days and counting...
20:42 Dec 13 2008 Times Read: 1,141
then off to Colorado.Hitting the old stomping grounds,snowboarding and who knows what else.Finally,FINALLY Getting out of here.
ok this puter is getting to me now..double posting,opening two damn windows with almost every click of the mouse.They need to replace their mouse dimmit.
Ive been watching for a while now and I must say,the behaviourr I have seen surrounding this coven is absoloutely pathetic.They blow through the forums with their lynch mob style insults and prejudice,never once contributing to a thread in any way other than to provoke controversy..Fight amongst theirselves because they have no clue as to how to have anykind of healthy relationship .Then air their dirty laundry out for all to see.Blaming one another when in fact everyone of them behaves just as badly as the other.
It's funny, in a way, how the modus operandi of the sociopathic emotional manipulator works.
Often, it begins with the identification of similar interests. The predator will look through the info of the prey, select the items which touch that person deeply, and then they will begin to learn about those areas, gathering a smattering- enough to not be an expert, but at least open a conversation.
Then they will attempt to form a friendship, to connect- often with unsolicitated messages and invitations to know them, to know their secrets.
However, those 'secrets' are often false. They are designed to bring out sorrowful sympathies, to make the prey see the predator as a victim, someone who has suffered and deserves better.
And then the prey is encouraged to begin to share their own genuine feelings, worries, and secrets with the predator, forming a bonding hook.
The next move is for the predator to bring in the minions- those who have already been duped lock, stock and barrel. The minions will be required to make friends with the prey, even if they don't really want to. But because the predator is the one pulling the puppet strings, who holds the sway over them, they will jump right in feet first, perhaps without even realising that they too are being manipulated.
Often, those minions will not have any real interest in the prey. Their only goal is to see their puppet master happy in the game.
And 'game' isn't really what it should be called, as that implies a much more innocent character to what is a sickeningly nefarious agenda. The game isn't even conciously acknowledged, or discussed openly, except by the most devious and callous of predators and minions who they trust enough to let them see the truth.
Another side of this game, is for the predator and their minions to seek an isolation of their target, to pull them into their clique and erect barriers between them and those who have proven trusts. Tactics will include engaging in inapprorpiate conversations about topics only close friends would have. Sometimes difficult subjects, often highly charged with emotion. Then a questioning of where other friends are to support, and the deeper identification of 'I know what you're going through', coupled with the minions offering small comforts here and there.
Further into this behaviour, we see that anyone who threatens their web of deceits, will be targeted to undermine their influence over the prey. These could be previous prey, or those who recognise the sociopath and will seek to prevent them from further machinations. Tactics will include a rubbishing of opinions, unfair criticisms of behaviour. Slanders and outright lies, which will be disguised as gossip, and then painting them as the villain in previous interactions with the predator.
The worst part of all this, is that the predator will not only have one prey, but several prey on tender hooks simultaneously. They will each be offered a close personal relationship, better and more deeply felt than they have had before. They will be shown a greener pasture, a hope of something lovely, bright and enticing. Sex is a factor here, as is the promise of unconditional love.
But at the end of the game, once the predator has had their fill, all they will receive is a rejection, be emotionally torn and this possibly resulting in lasting damage to the ability to trust.
As you already know Ive been a real good girl this year.And I only hope you bring lots of good treats and presents for my friends here on VR and what I want is rather large,but I really,REALLY want one.After all,it would really come in handy.
I figured you might..and that youd be workin for Santa this year.Hmm,could you just air freight it to my sky space please? I dont think UPS would like delivering that..although they could use one Im sure.;)
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xxEmaeraldxx
17:00 Dec 31 2008
and a Very Happy, peaceful and healthy New Year to you Oceanne ! XXX
VAMPIREBLONDEE
17:02 Dec 31 2008
Happy New Year to you too!
cadrewolf
21:01 Dec 31 2008
Have a Happy new Year Dear
moonkissed
20:47 Jan 01 2009
Happy New Year to you!